Just because I’m plus-size, people, ALL the time, will dismiss the fact that I could actually be dating someone.
I go out in public, even holding his fucking hand sometimes, and I’ll hear
“do you want any drinks for you and your friend?” or
“this girl’s friend is getting a tattoo, can you come in and do hers?”
and those are just two examples but this happens so often.
another thing that happens even MORE than that is being on a date with him, or out in public with him and having girls flirt with him or hit on him when i’m right the fuck next to him.
i don’t even think they realize how insulting that is to me.
he’s mine and how the hell would you feel if some bitch did that to you and your significant other?